Happiness is helping others people

 If you help people,you will  own their hearts. .

 .if you wanted The God  to attend to your needs facilitates you should  help people to spend their business, the penalty of the same work,

 It found that volunteer work increases the feeling of energy and a sense of self-control and self-confidence. • In other studies have linked people and help strengthen the immune system! Positive feelings of moral and material generosity Increase Cells «T cells« immune, that are resistant to diseases and the recovery of the body after infection by a rate increase. • beautiful sentiment to help others endorphins released into the blood, which is a natural hormone drug warrior and pain,

 A scientific study confirms that

, as engage in helping others stimulates the secretion of the hormone " endorphins " ,A hormone that helps the feeling of psychological comfort . And help others help to reduce the stress ,, Where that help the individual to others reduce the worries and problems of personal reflection and then feel psychological comfort . The researcher pointed to the need for the availability of three basic conditions when you help others to enjoy the positive aspects To help , the assistance should be regular , and to make personal contact between the person " helper " and called for assistance and have called for help outside the knowledge or the scope of family or friends . The expert confirms that man is not forced to help strangers , and is completely free to decide whether or not to help , and that freedom is important is to get the desired results of psychological help others. On the contrary, that person will be " forced " to help friends and relativesSo

what is the meaning of helping others? 

Helping others means: To provide help and assistance and support to those in need Whether such assistance psychological, physical or scientific testimony or even provide personal effort The person in need of such assistance

Also does not require a certain age to provide assistance for both useful and beneficiary It is also regarded as a kind of types of charity.You should learn assets of helping people

A nice feeling to help others who will you help?? And how

The position of providing assistance to a person, includes three main components: (what assistance, of offering him assistance, method, or how to help), and if you want to improve performance in this position,You have to give all the right element of interest , what is the help of the easiest elements ; if I saw standing on the blind side of the road , you know that help is needed in this case is to help him to cross the road

 If your father was ill and trying to get out of his chair , then you know that the assistance required at the moment is to help him stand up, and if you see the little brother remembers his lessons and is unable to resolve the issue You know that the assistance required to assist him is resolved , if it is easy to know what will be provided , so you have to focus a lot in the next item which is :

 Who will be helped?  

 The circumstances of each person and its special qualities Which makes the method of dealing with him is different from other , while children had to cross the road , you're dealing in a different way from what you are blind or elderly man deal , and the assistance of a small child in mathematics Differs from the provision of assistance to children suffering from mental and visual problems , for example , and your care for your mother differ from diseased ease the burdens that she was in good health and you have to remember that people with disabilitiesAnd diseases more need to accept help , and in fact they need it , but to provide assistance to them is the most difficult thing is ; because it is supposed to provide assistance without the movement of the other party a sense of impotence frank ,

 And you have to expect a negative reaction from him , but it happened it shows mostly on your failure to provide assistance in the right way , this happens involuntarily from the other party , and all you have is to accept it with an open mind , And try again in a different way , and for this , we find that on an ongoing basis to the persons accompanying such are better than offering them assistance; because the accompanying here have passed many experiences earned him enough experience , so they provide assistance So we provide assistance without wounding the feelings of the other party , and the infected person may tends to seek help from him naturally ; they realized that this person give him what he needs tactfully , and these do not realize easily , , And you should go through many experiences and learn until you speak .   There are also additional aid and is not necessary , that the submission of such a kind often to be healthy , which is motivated by love or fear on someone's aid , Or away from any source of concern or risk , and examples of this type : you want to help your parents and pushed them for anything , for example, lead to health problems , although your father  is good and have good structure You find that you insist on not driving you to Fir him in this , or insists on being the task of carrying purposes - especially heavy weight - yours you , and so , this type of aid also needs to be cautious in performance ,Where required to help you come loaded with very love and pampering to the other party and not help him .   If we talked about the third element which is how to provide aid , we find that the variable component linked to the previous element

A person who offers his assistance, if at all , we find that the aid is the best in secret , and avoid verbal expressions function on the other end deficit is very important ,It is very useful to provide assistance inappropriately , even if you are dealing with a person with a disability , try to watch the other party to identify the conditions that must play an effective role in which to express their help ,It also does not go overboard , it leads to wasteful to turn things upside down , and instead of the other party to be grateful to you , it is possible to become upset with him accompany you , and this resentment caused by your insistence

Your insistence unconsciously to make it real and fictional prisoner of his disability . This strengthened the desire to help others learn the art of help , and do not forget the value of humility and love , and finally do not brag with your help